Children interest in toys not studies

Have you ever concern of your children? Like he's more interested in toys and games rather than studies?

I feel they need to have a balance for both, don't leave out the important to outdoor activities.


 

Kisah benar: Maafkan Cikgu

Saw my friend shared this true story and decided to share it here. It is about a boy going to school always with dirty school uniform and shoes. The teacher asked him many times as he always comes late to school too. The poor boy shared his school uniform and shoes with his brother because they are from poor family. It's wise decision that teacher went to his place to find out but she didn't approach the family.

The teacher is sorry for hit him, now she's know the truth story of the boy.

You can read more below if you understand in Malay language.

Saya mengajar di sekolah rendah di tengah2 Bandaraya Kuala Lumpur. Saya mengajar sesi petang. Salah seorang murid saya setiap ha...ri datang lambat ke sekolah. Kasut dan bajunya selalu kotor. Setiap kali saya bertanya tentang baju dan kasutnya dia hanya berdiam diri. Saya masih bersabar dengan keadaan pakaiannya, tetapi kesabaran saya tercabar dengan sikapnya yang setiap hari datang lambat.

Pada mulanya saya hanya memberi nasihat. Dia hanya menundukkan kepala tanpa berkata2 kecuali anggukkan yang seolah2 dipaksa. Kali kedua saya memberi amaran, dia masih juga mengangguk tetapi masih juga datang lambat keesokannya. Kali ketiga saya terpaksa menjalankan janji saya untuk memukulnya kalau masih lambat.

Anehnya dia hanya menyerahkan punggungnya untuk dirotan. Airmata saja yang jatuh tanpa sepatah kata dari mulutnya. Keesokan harinya dia masih juga lambat, dan saya memukulnya lagi. Namun ia masih tetap datang kesekolah dan masih tetap lambat. Suatu hari saya bercadang untuk mengintipnya ke rumahnya. Setelah mendapatkan alamatnya, saya meneruskan niat saya. Dia tinggal di sebuah kawasan setinggan tidak berapa jauh dari sekolah. Keadaan rumahnya sangat daif. Saya nampak murid saya itu sedang berdiri di depan rumahnya dalam keadaan gelisah. Seorang wanita yang mungkin ibunya juga kelihatan gelisah.

Lebih kurang pukul 1.30 seorang anak lelaki sedang berlari2 sekuat hati menuju ke rumah itu. Sambil berlari dia membuka baju sekolahnya. Sampai di depan rumah baju dan kasutnya diserahkan pula kepada murid saya yang terus bergegas memakainya. Sebelum pakaian sekolah sempurna dipakai, dia sudah berlari ke arah sekolah. Saya kembali ke sekolah dengan penuh penyesalan. Saya memanggil anak itu sambil menahan airmata yang mula tergenang.

Maafkan cikgu. Tadi cikgu pergi ke rumah kamu dan memerhatikan kamu dari jauh. Siapa yang berlari memberikan kamu baju tadi?" Dia terkejut dan wajahnya berubah. "Itu abang saya. Kami kongsi baju dan kasut sebab tak ada baju lain. Itu saja baju dan kasut yang ada. Maafkan saya, cikgu." Jawabnya "Kenapa kamu tak beritahu cikgu dan kenapa kamu biarkan saja cikgu pukul kamu?" " Mak pesan, jangan meminta2 pada orang, jangan ceritakan kemiskinan kita pada orang. Kalau cikgu nak pukul serahkan saja punggung kamu." Sambil menahan airmata yang mula berguguran saya memeluk anak itu,

"Maafkan cikgu" .......

Parents shopping gifts for Teacher's Day

We need to love our parents but we never forget that who are the one teaching our children in school. We need to be grateful and thoughtful of them too, they are the one that teaching our children when we are at home or at work.

Today I saw many parents shopping for gifts for the Teachers. Some parents choose the prepared gifts selling at deck so easy for them to give to teachers. :D

I didn't purchase any from deck, I prefer to make my own but of course I bought some items in shop and go home DIY. :D

Education is important for children, they need to learn what's correct and wrong. Imagine being a teacher with class full filled with 40 students.

We are facing one teacher, but one teacher facing forty parents.

 

Tired of talking

Tell me if you have ever got tired of talking well I do because people are not listening a word I said. I need to say over and over again on the same question that is so crazy I just fed up with it. People that I mean they are my hubby and Jen. They are not paying attention on what I said.

The best thing to do is just keep quiet of it and if they ask again just tell them you say before and they not listen. Very often they want me to listen what they said and remember them but they not listen and not remember at all.